My husband cheated on me and I don’t know if I should give him another chance

I honestly don’t know what I’m looking for by posting this. I think I just need completely unbiased people to hear me out and tell me what you would do if you were in my position.

My husband and I have been together for about 6 years. We started dating when we were younger, and we’ve been through a lot together. We got married last year. We have had our ups and downs, and I know I’m not perfect. I know there have been times when I haven’t shown him how much I love him or made him feel the way I should have. But I have always loved him and genuinely thought he was the person I was going to spend my life with.

We’re currently long distance because of his military situation, which has obviously made things harder.

A few days ago, the girl he cheated on me with reached out to me and told me that he had been cheating on me for the past 4-5 months

There is more to the situation, though, and I’m struggling with how much of it changes things.

He had been depressed and dealing with a lot of his own emotions. He explained to me that he had gotten to a point where he felt like he was going to kill himself, and because he believed he was going to die anyway, he started feeling like it didn’t matter what he did anymore. That’s how he explained his mindset to me when he was going through all of this. ( i knew he was depressed almost 6 months ago i did my best to help him and explain...